Being a person who has little experience about love, if none at all, I thought of posting this here, maybe readers would have better insights can help and enlighten me J My dearest friend fell in love with a guy, who kept trying to approach her for around a year. She’s been communicating with him for around 6 months already. The poor lady discovered after a while that the guy is 4 years younger than her. Ouch that hurts! I truly did not think things will work with her since the very beginning. We are a traditional society that does not support the idea of the man being younger than the woman, and neither do I. I advised her but she wanted to proceed in the relationship anyway. Of course she’s free to make her own choices in this life and my responsibility is to merely give her an advice when she asks for one or when necessary. She experienced some emotional breakdown when he confessed to her couple of days that his dad refused the idea of him proposing to her for marriage completely. He’s also been fighting with his family for the past period over this subject. I told her: well, I’m no love expert dear, but I believe, true love should stand in the face of hard times and if he really loves her he would manage to remove all obstacles from their way. At the same time, I think he has the right to, and must maintain healthy relationships with his family as this is a high priority. BTW, I believe in rationality rather than love and costly emotions J
Add a Comment
from Jordan
said:شكراً كتير حميدي رأيك بيهمني كتير خصوصاً إنو عندك أكتر مني بالحياة 
أنا كمان بتمنى الله يوفقهم ويسهل طريقهم لأنو عنجد صاحبتي الموضوع مأثر فيها كتير!
from Jordan
said:عفواً كنت بدي أحكي لأنو عندك أكتر مني خبرة بالحياة
شكراً حميدي.
from Mexico
said:4 years.. :D I am really ...what can I say? nothing ...4 years is nothing but...because this is beyond love, life is more than a number, a family is support, friendship and company thru the life, the way we are walking on this world is so weak! even a young man, have no chances: a car accident, a disease or death and the way that the people choose well the life partner is crucial because an immature person (young or old) maybe can not be the support the help in case...because a person (woman or man) is so vulnerable...I met a young man, from Jordan, since the begining I told him this is impossible, (because the difference of age) but he was behind, now I am in love and the guy said it will be hard he can be the right man for me I just wondering: why if this Jordan guy knows about this way of living in his country...why he was insisted? Perhaps the hypocrisy is another of his qualities, or maybe he was really inloved, who knows...I do not know...good luck and take the best choice of your life...choose well the right person for you, this is the person who can start a new family, and share the life with. 
from Jordan
said:Dear Carmen,
1st of all welcome to my blog
2nd, sorry for your experience with this guy who didn't seem to be sure of what he wants from the beginning. However; hypocrisy might be a quality of his own personality, which is something not to be generalized to all guys in Jordan.
The issue is, I have already met with several guys during my schooling and job careers, and also on the social level and family ties. The truth is they were quality humans whom I was and will forever be proud to have the chance of meeting with
It's true our society is traditional, but I've witnessed many relationships where the guy removes obstacles for the sake of approaching his love and working things out. I've even seen many people married under starnge scenarios where compatibility does not seem to exist.
Honestly, I wish you the best of luck, and I wish you the chance of getting along with a good guy from Jordan, cause they are true men with kind hearts
Add a Comment
<<Home
from United States
رائي بان العمر مأله دخل، بالتفاهم والصبر يستطيع أن يحل المشكلة مع أهله، اتمنى لهم السعادة والنجاح