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In Memory of: A Nice Friendship Anniversary

 

This post is about a nice friend I had, I can't recall a specific date, but I still remember it was in past Nov. of the year 2005, when I got to know this friend and explore some very nice things because of such friendship.

 

Now, why am I writing this?

Actually, it's a habit I had since ever; I always like to thank my friends for their kindness and affection. I realized recently how busy I became with my family, school and job that I stopped doing this. Also being very lonely lately reminded me of this. No, don't get me wrong guys, I'm not complaining about loneliness, on the contrary, I'm adapting to it as a new approach towards a better life, since hiding would help me focus on very important and critical issues in my life.

Bottom line, it helps me exist in a different way.

 

People around me say I'm very sentimental to annoying extents sometimes, but I say: whatever, what would I lose if I thank a person who did lots of favors and at the same time was there for me when many weren't.

Really what would I miss if I thank a valuable friend. The word thanks doesn't sound like a heavy word for my tongue to pronounce anyway!

 

My friend taught me lots of things and was there so many times for me when I was upset and depressed, besides helping me pass some hard stages in my life; only Allah knows how they would have ended without this friend's help.

I know for sure that he gave me some valuable advices and his words inspired me in all possible aspects. I swear to Allah, some of his words still ring in my ear like a bill and frankly speaking, he withstood some terrible moods of me sometimes.

 

As simple as it is, but incapable of expressing my feelings: THANK YOU.

  

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On November, 10, 2006 10:07 AM , sharifo
from Palestinian Territory, Occupied said:

Cool...first one !!
Well, I like the " Thank you " thing, but i'll be passing the year thanking my good friend, In my opinion here in Palestine, friendship has a taste, sometimes it became stronger than brotherhood,
So i just want to say to your friend that, your lucky to have such great friend as Jerusalem !


On November, 10, 2006 12:20 PM , thecaller
from Egypt said:

Asalam 3alaykom,
liked the indications of the colours..
liked the sweetness behind the message..
liked the love in the air


On November, 10, 2006 12:52 PM , Jerusalem
from Jordan said:

Sharifo Allah yes3edak ya ebni,

If you know what smile you draw on my face when I see your comments, it's good to see you people from Gaza.
And do you know what, thank you for saying he's lucky to have a friend like me, I'm even more lucky than him, because I have great friends blogging about Palestine like you


On November, 10, 2006 12:56 PM , Jerusalem
from Jordan said:

Smart lady ya caller as usual,
very smart indeed...
The post becomes nicer when you approach it sweetheart
Friends like you and Sharifo make me think a thousand times before I stop blogging or delete my blog, I breath through your air guys...


On November, 10, 2006 8:43 PM , hamede
from United States said:

How sweet it is.


On November, 10, 2006 11:24 PM , Jerusalem
from Jordan said:

Not as sweet as your presence hamede


On November, 11, 2006 2:49 PM , sarah
from Lebanon said:

ur sweet and u cant be other than that dear Jerusalem lady
may alllah always bless u by friends presence ,friendship is soooooo much precious and without them we r just nothing ,it was nice from u to talk abt such a sweet anniversary
take care sweet heart
love u


On November, 11, 2006 8:10 PM , thecaller
from Egypt said:

Asalam 3alaykom,
jerusalem..what is that i'm hearing..reading or what ever???
closing what??
don't u think that..ever think that...what about me and ur other friends and what does it hardly take to stay??
what ten minutes aday..
jerusalem..don't hide..i did it and i regret it..really do..
allah yerda 3aleeky ma troo7y..please!!


On November, 11, 2006 8:36 PM , Jerusalem
from Jordan said:

Attention all,

I believe Sarah has a great spirit, she's the best, she visits my blog even when I'm too busy or unable to manage with my time and visit her blog.
Friendship is so important, roo7i ya benti Allah yes3edek wherever you were, May Allah bless you and I love you so so much darling....


On November, 11, 2006 8:40 PM , Jerusalem
from Jordan said:

Caller, my dear, this blog is one of the things that help me go on with the least possible depression or feel that I'm not lonely anymore.
Wise lady, I'm gonna listen to your voice and take your advice for serious cause you're my beloved caller and I trust you dear...
Love you so much geniune lady


On November, 13, 2006 6:10 PM , thecaller
from Egypt said:

Thank you...


On November, 13, 2006 6:39 PM , abu seedo said:

I don't like u!


On November, 14, 2006 12:39 AM , sarah
from Lebanon said:

Dearest Jerusalem lady
last time i didnt say a word abt ur will of leaving the blog
listen ill tell u something we r ur friends and we have rights on u u cant just close the door and leave ,ur log is n turs anymore ,we want u here ,and i insist ,plz sweet heart re-think abt it ,comng one time per week wont be a big deal
ill add my voice to rasha
and if u please close ur eyes i wanna reply to abu seedo ,its ok u may dont like her we dont need ur opinion she knows very well that we do :D

be fine habibte


On November, 14, 2006 8:41 AM , Jerusalem
from Jordan said:

Caller dear,

You are welcome all the time


On November, 14, 2006 8:43 AM , Jerusalem
from Jordan said:

Abu seedo,

Thanks for being frank enough to say your real opinion about me
I wish you had enough courage to mention your real identity and not hide behind such a name


On November, 14, 2006 8:47 AM , Jerusalem
from Jordan said:

Sarah ya albi,

Ah wallah elek 7a2 3alay and that's why I won' stop blogging, might be away for a while because of exams, but inshallah I'll be back in a week.
Thanks for replying to abu seedo, it makes no sense sweetheart for him to be brave enough to say his true opinion but not mention the real identity, if you wanted me to know that you don't like me, then you should tell me who you are really so I can stop teasing you, sa7 ya Sarah

Thanks for being extremely nice my dear friend, love you


On November, 14, 2006 7:43 PM , ايمان
from Palestine said:

tieb we7na mn ween nla2e 7ad bktob bil personal subjects hal2ad msha3ro 7elwa o 7sasa,,,blash hai el qrarat el 5ateera hhhhhh
5aliha lal2iam
miss you


On November, 15, 2006 8:42 AM , Jerusalem
from Jordan said:

خجلتيني والله يا إيمان،
عند شكراً يا قلبي، كلك ذوق.
ادعيلي الفترة الجاية مهمة


On November, 17, 2006 4:22 PM , blackr0se
from Lebanon said:

الله يوفقك حبيبتي يا رب على طول انا بس اشتقتلك
كوني بخير


On November, 18, 2006 10:31 AM , abu-seedo said:

Madame,
It isn't a real opinion or anything, so I don't know why you have thanked me for my "opinion" about you?

Liking or disliking somebody doesn't reflect an opinion concerning personalities, so there is no way I have judged you by saying I don't like you, as a matter of fact I can't reflect my opinions and "theories" regarding you, as an individual , because I don't know you for real –and I don't want to-!
Disliking you is just a feeling, which can't be explained. I haven't attacked your dignity by any means, because I have declared previously, I can't judge you or your deeds and will never do, and no one can attack you or anybody's dignity or pride or self-ego, since these principles are shaped in you, and no one can hurt you based on those built-in values unless you lost them somewhere!
Nevertheless, whenever I read your comments all over the sphere or –unfortunately- read any of your posted articles, I have this strange feeling of disliking you! It's just a feeling that was developed for unknown reason and felt that I want to let you know, nothing more, nothing less.
Saying that I am a cowered won't do you any good. Hiding my identity won't change the fact that I will die million times before meeting you in real life! You don't want to know somebody who actually pukes when he reads you. No offense, Gods forbid, but you can't be loved by all, I can't be loved by all! Lets face it.

To make the long story short, I don't like you. Period.


On November, 18, 2006 2:25 PM , Jerusalem
from Jordan said:

Hala Sarah,

I miss you all guys

Abu seedo,
Don't get really offended like that, you are a welcomed guest all the time.
When I thanked you for your opinion, I just said that cause you have enough courage to say it frankly even though it might be unaccepted from some people, whom I'm not included in there category, I wasn't hypocirte and inshallah will never be.
To make it more simple for you, and I didn't really wanna say this, but you pushed me to: if you don't like my articles or my comments, don't read any of them, since they puke you, don't visit my blog or read my comments, it's your decision, Period.
Puke: that's a very uncivilzed way to describe your feelings, but thanks anyway, I grow through those kinds of challenges, and whether you like me or not is not really an important matter, simply because I believe in what you said: we can't be liked by all

By the way I didn't use the word coward, not having enough courage does not mean that you have non at all


On November, 18, 2006 4:05 PM , abu-seedo said:

Lol! No way was I offended. Why should I? I've just cleared some points and explained the difference between opinion and feelings for you, so you won't mix up between them again. I tried to be nice, and by doing that I was.

Cowered, enough courage, whatever you want to call it, I don't really care.
I mean, I don't really care whether you think that I have courage, a little bit or none. Don't worry. I am a cowered and I shall live with that. So don't worry about clearing that up (Trying to be nice again!).

Puking is an action done other than in accordance with the conscious will of the individual, so why should I be the one to be judged for such an action? I don't know, I mean I don't understand! Do you feel offended if your son/daughter does that?
Do you tell them "don't puke all over me because it is uncivilized?".

Well, tell you something, Visiting your blog isn't something I enjoy doing to be honest. , but I read your "sophisticated comments" everywhere, and so I decided to drop by and read you. It made me dislike you even more. So, don't worry, I won't visit you again, not because you said so, it's because I feel so cold when I do so.


On November, 23, 2006 10:22 AM , Fadi K
from Jordan said:

Hi Jerusalem ... Akhbarek?

I just dropped here to say Hi how are you and to wish you a nice blessed day

Things will be alright inshallah.


Your friend Fadi


On November, 23, 2006 10:22 AM , Fadi K
from Jordan said:

Hi Jerusalem ... Akhbarek?

I just dropped here to say Hi how are you and to wish you a nice blessed day

Things will be alright inshallah.


Your friend Fadi


On November, 23, 2006 11:54 PM , ايمان
from Palestine said:

وينك؟ وينك؟ وينك؟


On November, 24, 2006 9:44 AM , caller
from Egypt said:

Asalam 3alaykom,
Bayekh awe enny a7tafel wenty oo sarah mokhtafeen keda..
ezhar oo ban 3aleek elaman:D

abou seedo..
What exactly do u want??
dislike the blog..don't read!!
like it..shut up and say a very nice comment to the lady..

ya rabi...ashoof gentelman wa7ed bas abl ma moot:S
gheer fadi tab3an;)


On November, 25, 2006 4:16 PM , Abu-seedo said:

TO CALLER:
Lady…Lady…Lady…

You have ordered me to "shut up" at Jerusalem blog…and for that I have decided to drop you a visit, in order to know more about the person who interferes and plays the "hero" role, and stick their noses when they shouldn't!

Anyway,

I can be a very nasty pain in the *SS , I can be really awful, but instead of playing the same dirty game of yours, let me just whisper two words and then leave:

TRUE Muslim, who CLAIMS that he's calling for Islam, doesn't ask people to shut up. HE shows the best in Islam, but your attitude was exactly the opposite! Well, ma'am, SHAME ON YOU!

The only explination for what you have done is that you are either suffering from Schizophrenia or you have a serious double standard issue! PICK ONE!
I have to say that after reading many of your articles, I can safely say that you are someone who's facing SH*T and simply can't handle it! So, don't act as if you are better, or that you know better. You are a poor soul seeking for comfort in the arms of strangers and the PC monitor. That's who you are, so before asking somebody to "shut up", think twice.

You won't drag me to a meaningless debate. I have IMPORTANT things to do, and wasting my time over you and your silly and pathetic self won't do me any good. So, Deleting my comment, replaying back, or building a "WE HATE ABU SEEDO" Campaign won't make a single difference for me, because this blogsphere "collects" weak people who can do nothing but hide behind the PC screen!


On November, 25, 2006 7:03 PM , Fadi K
from Jordan said:

Hi Jerusalem ..

Setty , what is going on? We miss you here, so why not have "Back in Black" post (The AC/DC style ;) )and say : Hey... I'm a power pack and so ..lol

I have also gone through the comments one by one and sob7an Allah : Be3mal men el shabah 40! I was surprised when I read Mr. Abu Seedo's comments .. Ya sater. To me they sound Harsh!

Caller: Thank you dear. Ya3ny betkhajleeny all the time.

Abu Seedo my friend: if I may, I care for both , Jerusalem and Caller, fa Allah yerda 3aleik , you sound so harsh my friend and you remind me of Qweider's naked truth and how he used to present it to others. I have a suggestion: Why don't you sugar coat your ideas and put it in a yummy way? Better , beleive me

Take care everybody.


On November, 25, 2006 8:00 PM , caller
from Egypt said:

Fadi..LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
hahahahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
tefteker da qwaider in desgiuse??!!
wallahi da7akteny gedan..
may be coming to jordan made him abo seeeeedo:P:P
nahhhhh
ma3a eny atawaqa3 menno ay 7aga...ella en abo seedo...seedo asly mesh taiwany..
hate me seedo..but..bet u'd like me one day;)
i am so sure..
kiddin'
allah yestor aljamee3..
may allah bless u all...and jeru...mesh 7ateegy tedaf3y 3anny..yalla ezhar oo ban 3aleek elaman:D:D
check my new blog ya jama3a..and add me ba2a..i'll spend lots of time by the sea side there:D


On November, 26, 2006 9:50 AM , Jerusalem
from Jordan said:

First of all;
Thanks alot Fadi, Caller and Eman for your nice visits, wallah I really appreciate it a lot.
La black wa la green, ya Fadi, 5alas, it seems abu seedo wants to enjoy the blog so let him, plus I'm shutting down, I'm very tired of everything and should take a rest, don't know if this might help but hope so.

ABU SEEDO says he doesn't know me in person and he just dropped by because I seemed a very irritating blogger to him "in the blog sphere"; so he replied to my posts and remember to mine only, since I don't see his comments anywhere else. Ok. this means one thing only: he didn't visit any other blog. 5alas, just spit it out, what do you want exactly? Why do you like to visit a place you hate, leave a comment, reply and keep on visiting?

Caller is seeking comfort in the arms of the PC?! Hah, wallah enta zalameh ma bte3raf 3an sho 3am te7ki; simply, this lady is from a reputable family, well educated and has her degrees, her own job and a son Kaman if that's enough for you.
You don't like her, balash we do!!!

3eib 3alaik, I can't even repeat the same words you mentioned, what's your problem? You say you are busy but apparently you're not, you just wait to see a reply to your comments so you can start fighting, well sorry to tell you the truth but that doesn't seem busy to me!

Hiding behind a nasty attitude won't do you nothing, za3lan menny in person; just be a real man and say it frankly, so we can end this up and solve the problem.
You said you won't be visiting so is it that you are waiting for the next post so you can start attacking?!
If you know really how a real muslim should act, as you claim, then just act like one!!!!

Again, DON'T INSULT MY FRIENDS ON MY BLOG, if you think I'm hiding behind a PC, then that's your problem, DEAL WITH IT, because I'm not, on the contrary I represent something I like & respect, whether you like it or don't,


On November, 26, 2006 10:05 AM , Fadi K
from Jordan said:

Good morning Jerusalem ..

Well said , and may God bring all the best. Allah be3een.

Please don't hesitate to ask for our help if y ou need it and think we can help u in any way.

Take care


On November, 26, 2006 10:52 AM , freedomman
from Jordan said:

Dear Jerusalem

It was along time, but I am going through hard times this semester, there is a lot of work to do and many tasks due these days since it's my last month in my masters thing, but I'll be back to this lovely world and my adorable friends.

You should always blog and posting these great ideas and beautiful words, don’t leave or delete this because your blog represents these times in your life that you will always cherish and remember, there are many friends who care for you and really love and respect you the way you are.

Don’t let any stupid or people with misconceptions stop you from writing, they just don’t get what’s hidden between the lines that are all! You are strong enough to stop them and raise your words in the sky.

Just be as you are always JERUSALEM.
Take care.

I want to thank all our friends who are supporting and helping to make this blogging experience a nice and great one; thank you FADI, THECALLER and every good friend.

May Allah bless all of you.


On November, 26, 2006 2:57 PM , Jerusalem
from Jordan said:

I'm very thankful Fadi,

Indeed I won't hesitaate to ask for your help guys, TRUE FRIENDS, that's what you are
3njad I'm speechless, a thank you won't be enough to express what I feel


On November, 26, 2006 3:00 PM , Jerusalem
from Jordan said:

To you too Freedom man,
thanks you is not enough, thanks for the push, you made my day man..
Seeing you on my blog puts a smile on my face, why? I have no clue

Anyway, thanks for your great support, take care of yourself and Allah ywaff2ak in the master and ed3eeli, it's getting harder and harder in this univ.

May Allah bless all of you who made my day one of the best ever


On November, 26, 2006 9:21 PM , Fadi K
from Jordan said:

Most Whiskas Jerusalem.

http://www.whiskas.com


On November, 27, 2006 8:49 AM , ramoy said:

Lucky friends of yours ;)w allah ykhaleekon la ba3ad


On November, 27, 2006 5:29 PM , sarah
from Lebanon said:

just dropping by to say hi sweet heart miss you so much hope everything is just fine with you "
be safe my friend


On November, 29, 2006 2:40 AM , hamede
from United States said:

Hi jerusalem, i think abu seedo is he or she someone who know you,and my be he or she the dont like you,my be one day you will find out who is she or he.


On November, 29, 2006 2:17 PM , Jerusalem
from Jordan said:

Thanks all for being extremely nice,
Sarah, Fadi & Ramoy, thank you very much, I really appreciate your support.

hamede,
thanks alot and by the way, I think I already know who is abu seedo


On December, 07, 2006 3:41 PM , Osaid
from Palestinian Territory, Occupied said:

impressive...




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